Sheila & NyAsia | Erin's House family since 2021
Sheila: I had a student that discussed Erin’s House during her presentation. At the time, I did not know about it or what it could do. It was information I filed away in my mind.
In September 2018, we lost my mother-in-law; in May 2019, my mom; in January 2021, my dad; in February 2021, my brother; in August 2021, my sister-in-law; Thanksgiving 2022, my brother-in-law. That was a lot of family loss, and we needed help. I remembered Erin’s House and gave them a call. They welcomed NyAsia and made her feel so comfortable that it helped me feel comfortable, also.
I wanted to plan something elaborate for NyAsia for her special day, her 16th birthday. She said she did not want a party because “I don’t have any friends to invite.” This broke my heart! I could see that she wanted something special – yet, she felt she did not have any friends to invite. One night after her group, I asked, “Can I have a birthday party for you here at Erin’s House?” The joy I felt when she answered a resounding, “YES, of course!” NyAsia enjoys her group – they were her friends to invite!
I am so happy that this is a center where ALL are welcomed, and we do not have to worry if we have the right insurance coverage to afford us the opportunity to come to get help!
NyAsia: If I were to tell a friend about Erin’s House, I would tell them Erin’s House is really helpful and it is fun to get to socialize with others our age in group and do the fun activities.
A special memory I have of my Grandma Cuffy is how caring she was. For my Grandma Hunt, I will always remember going to her house every Sunday for a family meal and devotions. My Grandpa Hunt loved to ride in his golf cart. Somedays he would even let me drive him.
When I was surprised with the birthday party, I really didn’t expect it. At first, I thought this was just what Erin’s House did for people’s birthdays, but then I found out my mother had planned it. I think my favorite highlight from the party was getting the tiara and sash to wear!
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